When Life Gets in the Way: How to Navigate the Ups & Downs of Training

We’ve all been there. You’ve been meticulously following your training plan for weeks, hitting every target and feeling unstoppable. You have your A race just a few weeks away. Then, out of nowhere, an illness knocks you off your game and you are forced to take time off from training. Do you push through or give yourself the grace to recover? If you’ve ever faced this dilemma, you’re not alone.
These are common questions – and maybe even fear is the correct word. How far off your program can you go (when necessary) without sacrificing progress and results? Do I train through sickness? Will my progress suffer if I take multiple days off in a row? When work gets in the way, can I shorten the duration and up the intensity of my training?
My goal is to support you with navigating the ups and downs of training as it pertains to consistency when life gets in the way. Trust me, it’s not nearly as detrimental as you might think.
THE REALITY OF LIFE’S INTERRUPTIONS
Nobody wants to feel like their progress is being disrupted by unforeseen circumstances. We train hard, hope that every aspect of our plan is executed perfectly, and we show up on race day like we never missed a single beat in our programming.
But even for the pros, this is not possible! Life is life, and it will keep on life’ing. If you are an age group athlete, odds are you have work, family, and community responsibilities. You also need time to sleep and relax. With higher training volumes during racing season, juggling all of these things can also have an impact on your immune system. In turn, you may find that you suffer an extra sickness or two during the season.
Or maybe your health stays in tip top shape, but a project at work becomes a beast; alternatively, your kids may have graduations, recitals, games…all things you should not be missing out on! Since I’m pretty certain everyone reading this is not paid to race or compete, keep perspective on what’s most important.
Without trying to poll readers or research stats, I think it’s safe to say that most everyday athletes have had their training thrown for a loop. And while some results may have suffered initially, when you accept the situation, pivot as needed, pick up where you left off, and keep a positive mindset, you can usually come back even stronger.
THE MYTH OF PERFECT CONSISTENCY
I recently shared about this in my newsletter. Consistency does not mean doing the same things in the same order at the same intensity, day in and day out. Consistency can look like 40% effort one day, 95% the following, and 67% the next. Some weeks, this looks like hitting every training session, getting the kids to their sports, showing up to work, and keeping the house in order. Other weeks, it’s fitting in showers, nailing 70% of your workouts, and feeding the family. Give yourself grace!
As everyday athletes, we have a lot going on. You have to be realistic so you can keep moving forward. Consistency means showing up to the best of your ability everyday. If you’re feeling 60%, give it 60%. Plus, always aiming for perfection can add another layer of stress that may impact your physical health and training efficacy.
Stress and Performance
While stress is totally necessary and a great driver in performance. However, if you find yourself overthinking every missed workout, trying to make up for sessions that were cut short, or mentally beating yourself up over it, you are not doing your body and mind the best service. Below are a few things to consider when it comes to managing it.
Mental Health:
- Higher Stress Levels: Perfectionists often experience higher levels of stress due to the constant pressure they put on themselves to meet exceedingly high standards.
- Anxiety and Depression: Research links perfectionism with increased levels of anxiety and depression, as individuals may feel inadequate or distressed when they perceive they haven’t achieved perfection.
Physical Health:
- Impact on Physical Health: Chronic stress from perfectionism can contribute to various physical health problems such as headaches, digestive issues, insomnia, and even cardiovascular problems over time.
- Immune Function: Prolonged stress can weaken the immune system, making individuals more susceptible to illnesses.
Physical Performance:
- Impaired Performance: Ironically, despite the drive for perfection, perfectionists may underperform due to anxiety, fear of failure, or burnout.
- Risk of Injury: In sports and physical activities, perfectionism can lead to increased risk of injury as individuals push themselves beyond safe limits.
Overall Impact:
- Quality of Life: Perfectionism can diminish overall quality of life as individuals may struggle with relationships, work-life balance, and personal satisfaction.
- Long-term Consequences: Over time, the cumulative effects of stress and health problems can have lasting impacts on well-being and longevity.
Research in this area consistently highlights the detrimental effects of perfectionism on both mental and physical health. Strategies such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness practices, and stress management techniques are often recommended to help individuals mitigate the negative impacts of perfectionism and improve overall well-being.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m all for aiming to be the best you can be, just not to the detriment of your overall health, all the time. But stress does also play a key role in performing well! Understanding how to manage it is key for longevity in sport and performance.
YOUR BODY TELLS YOU MOST!

I cannot emphasize this enough. Listen to your body. You want to acknowledge the whispers before they turn into screams. I am admittedly at fault for this. Many times, I have trained through minor injuries; I have tried to push it while my body was fighting off infections; I have refused rest days when I knew they were warranted. IT IS NOT WORTH IT.
However, it is worth noting that not all illnesses are created equal when it comes to time off. Deciding whether to train while sick depends on the severity of your illness and how you feel physically. Here are some signs and symptoms to consider:
- Fever: If you have a fever, it’s generally recommended to avoid intense physical activity. Elevated body temperature indicates your body is fighting off an infection, and exercising can elevate your heart rate further, potentially making you feel worse.
- Fatigue: Feeling unusually tired or lacking energy can be a sign that your body needs rest rather than exertion. Pushing through fatigue can prolong recovery time and potentially lead to worsening symptoms.
- Respiratory Symptoms: If you have a cough, chest congestion, or difficulty breathing, exercising can exacerbate these symptoms and strain your respiratory system.
- Body Aches and Pains: Muscle aches, joint pain, and general discomfort can indicate your body is dealing with inflammation or infection. Exercising can increase pain and discomfort.
- Gastrointestinal Symptoms: Nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, or abdominal pain can be exacerbated by physical activity and dehydration, making it advisable to rest until symptoms improve.
- Headache: If you have a headache, particularly if it’s accompanied by other flu-like symptoms, exercise can intensify pain and lead to further discomfort.
- General Feeling of Illness: Trust your body’s signals. If you feel generally unwell, have a sense of malaise, or feel dizzy or lightheaded, it’s best to rest and allow your body to recover.
Ultimately, the decision to train while sick depends on your individual circumstances and the severity of your symptoms. In cases of mild illness or symptoms localized above the neck (such as a mild cold without fever), some light exercise may be manageable and even beneficial for boosting mood and circulation.
However, for more severe symptoms or systemic illness, prioritizing rest and recovery is crucial to allow your body to heal properly. Always listen to your body and consult with a healthcare professional if you’re unsure about exercising while sick.
It’s important to consider the potential risks associated with training while sick or injured. This can potentially prolong recovery or exacerbate existing health issues. Here are some key factors to consider:
- Delayed Recovery: Training while sick or injured can delay your body’s natural healing process. It diverts resources away from recovery towards physical exertion, which may prolong the time it takes for your body to recover fully.
- Increased Severity of Illness/Injury: Exercising while sick or injured can worsen your condition. For example, pushing through a respiratory infection can lead to increased respiratory distress or exacerbate symptoms like coughing and congestion.
- Compromised Immune Function: Intense exercise can temporarily suppress the immune system. Exercising while sick may further compromise immune function, making it harder for your body to fight off the illness and potentially increasing susceptibility to secondary infections.
- Risk of Injury: Exercising while injured can aggravate the injury or lead to new injuries. Reduced coordination, altered biomechanics due to pain, or impaired muscle function can increase the risk of accidents or strains.
- Exhaustion and Fatigue: Training while sick or injured can drain your energy reserves, leading to increased fatigue. Overexertion can delay recovery and may lead to a prolonged period of reduced performance.
- Mental Strain: Training while not feeling well can add stress and mental strain. This can impact your motivation, mood, and overall enjoyment of exercise, potentially leading to burnout or frustration.
- Long-Term Consequences: Ignoring your body’s signals for rest and recovery can have long-term consequences on your health and fitness goals. It may lead to chronic issues or recurring injuries if proper recovery isn’t prioritized.
- Social and Environmental Impact: Exercising while contagious can spread illness to others at the gym or training facility, impacting the health of those around you.
It’s essential to listen to your body and prioritize rest and recovery when you’re sick or injured. Consulting with a healthcare professional or a qualified coach can provide guidance on when it’s safe to resume training and how to modify your workouts to accommodate your recovery process.
MENTAL WELL-BEING

When I was growing up, my mom would allow my sisters and I to take mental health days off from school. This was back in the 90s, so she was ahead of the times a bit on this. But the reality was, she knew when we were getting drained mentally, our performance in school and sports suffered. We were not allowed to take them every month! But within reason, and they helped. Taking a day or two off allows you to recharge and reset so that you are functioning at your best.
If you’ve listened to my podcast, you may have heard the episode on Body Image. We discuss the idea of speaking to yourself like you are your best friend. Oftentimes, we speak to ourselves so much worse than we would ever speak to another person. When you recognize this, stop! Every cell in your body is listening to your thoughts.
Also, check out the episode where we discuss handling stress! This all ties into your mental well-being.
STRATEGIES FOR ADAPTING YOUR TRAINING PROGRAM
Different situations will call for different adaptations. But here are a few things that have worked for me over the years, along with some practices that I’m working on.
- Lighten the load: When you’re starting to feel a sickness come on, proactively lighten the intensity of your training. You don’t want congestion to make its way further down into your lungs.
- Prioritize sleep and hydration: This should really be an everyday thing, but especially when you are starting to feel run down and ill.
- Assess your diet: Give your body less work to do. Avoid processed foods and load up on your colorful fruits and veggies to make sure you’re getting in your micronutrients.
- Change up your training: If you are dealing with an injury, choose an alternative form or exercise. For example, if you are having issues with your shoulder, omit the swims for a week or two; inflammation in the joints of your legs or feet, omit or lower your running volume, lessen the power output on the bike, and opt for more swim sessions.
- Increase the intensity and shorten the duration: When life gets in the way in the form of work, family, or social obligations, learn to pivot! While you may have to skip some sessions altogether, see if you can shorten the duration and up the intensity. Sometimes all it takes is 20-30 minutes to get the aerobic training in.
- Treat yourself: If you are nursing an injury and it’s not contraindicated, consider treating yourself to a massage, make the time for a sauna and cold plunge experience, or schedule in more time for mobility and flexibility work.
LONG-TERM MINDSET
At the end of the day, we all know our lives are not perfect. And as much as we’d love our training programs to be flawless, it ain’t gonna happen. However, taking a week or two off is really not as detrimental as you might think! Heck, even if you had to take 4 weeks off or more to make sure your body healed properly, you can and will bounce back.
For my triathletes, the amount of time off from endurance training that will cause you to lose progress can vary based on individual factors such as fitness level, training history, and genetics. However, some general guidelines can be helpful and give you peace of mind:
- Detraining Effects: Typically, noticeable declines in endurance performance can start to occur within 2 to 4 weeks of reduced or no training. This period is known as the detraining phase.
- Fitness Maintenance: If you’ve been training consistently, you can maintain a significant portion of your fitness gains with reduced training. However, complete cessation or a significant reduction in training volume and intensity over several weeks can lead to declines.
- Rebuilding Fitness: The longer you take off, the longer it generally takes to regain the lost fitness. For instance, if you take 4 weeks off, it might take around 4 to 8 weeks to regain the lost fitness, depending on various factors.
- Individual Variability: Some individuals may experience faster declines or slower rebuilding times based on factors like age, baseline fitness, and how long they’ve been training.
To minimize the loss of progress during time off, it can be beneficial to incorporate some level of maintenance training, such as lower-intensity workouts or cross-training activities that maintain cardiovascular fitness. This approach helps to keep your body adapted to endurance demands and can facilitate a smoother return to regular training when you’re able to resume.
FINAL THOUGHTS
As with all things in life and training, you are an individual. How you respond to training, stress, sickness, injury, and recovery are unique to you. I hope the above guidelines and suggestions provide a framework for you to adjust your training when needed. When in doubt, speak with a healthcare professional or a coach!
I’m always happy to connect. If you’re interested in finding out if we’re a good fit, send me a message to get started. It’s your journey, your pace, and all my support.